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Expenses, who pays what?
Author: Various
About the Author: This was found from various sources, publications and traditions passed down.

Today, the groom and his family often offer to share some of the wedding expenses that traditionally have been paid by the bride's family. This is a significant change of custom, as the costs of traditional weddings have become too prohibitive for many families to absorb. However, if the groom's family does not offer to share expenses, the bride's family should plan a wedding in accordance with their means.
The traditional division of expenses is listed below. In addition to the change noted above, it should be kept in mind that there are numerous exceptions and variations depending on religion, ethnic, or local custom. Many items may be omitted without diminishing the ceremony in any way.

Paid by The Bride

  • Wedding ring for groom.

  • Wedding gift for groom.

  • Gifts for attendants.

  • Blood test and physical examination.

  • Lodging for out-of-town attendants.

Paid by Bride's Family

  • Bridal consultant, if needed

  • Invitations and announcements

  • Flowers for the church and receptions,
    bouquets for the bridesmaids,
    bouquet for bride (some-times given by groom)

  • Music for the ceremony, including organist or choir fee

  • Transportation of bridal party to church or synagogue and reception

  • Sexton's fee (church fee)

  • Reception dinner.

  • Music at reception

The Groom

  • Wedding ring for bride.

  • Wedding gift for bride.

  • Gifts for groom's attendants.

  • Marriage license.

  • Bride's bouquet, mothers' corsages, and boutonnieres for men in wedding party.

  • Lodging for out-of-town best man and ushers.

  • Blood test.

  • Clergyman's fee.

  • Honeymoon expenses.

Paid by Groom's Family

  • Traveling expenses and lodging, if applicable

  • Reception Beverages (any alcohol, soda, ice, bar help, etc...)

  • Reception Hors D'ourves

  • Gift for bride and groom.

  • Optional - rehearsal dinner or any other expenses they wish to assume.

Paid by Attendants

  • Dress and accessories

  • Transportation to and from town of wedding

  • Gift to the couple and contribution to a gift from
    all bridesmaids to the bride

Expenses Paid by Ushers

  • Transportation to and from town of wedding

  • Rental of wedding attire

  • Gift to the couple and contribution to a gift from all ushers to the groom

  • Bachelor dinner (optional, and often given by groom)

Paid by Out-of-Town Guests

  • Transportation and accommodations

  • Gift to the couple

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